REMEMBER, your greatness, your possibility & your amazing dreams & desires.
Don’t let these crazy times hold you back, define you &/or derail you.
Life is happening "for" you, not "to" you.
LOVE, such a mind and life altering concept.
Here are some questions for you to ponder regarding LOVE: "Why Do You Love?" Is it to be loved or because you just love? Are you looking for something in return for your loving? Do you withhold love because of past experiences AND is it only from certain people?
I recently had a conversation regarding loving; do we love for loving's sake, or do we withhold love because someone said or did something that was mean, hurtful, or a lie. I was thinking about this conversation as I was journaling this morning and what I received was perfect and yet perplexing.
Here was my question that started it all: How does me holding onto resentments, judgements, hate, anger, memories of wrong doings, interpretations of actions, righteous indignation, serve me in my everyday walk? The depth of my love (unconditional or not) speaks volumes of me, NOT the person I am giving love to.
I was reminded that love is a gift not something someone earns.
If my love is contingent upon how someone reciprocates what is that saying about my love? How someone reacts (coming from fear) or responds (coming from love) to my love speaks volumes of them and the depth of their fear or love. How I react or respond to their reaction or response is ON ME, NOT them.
As I said before, I find this perfect and perplexing. I am in awe of the simplicity of it and the complexity I make of it.
My defense of a rejection I perceive or interpret is a protection of my tender heart which creates my lack of TRUST in myself as well as others to who I give love. Remembering again, love is a gift not something someone earns.
Here is my process: trust that I can handle and capable of giving and receiving love (no strings, no conditions) and if it is rejected it is because the other cannot receive it for whatever reason and if it is received it may come with conditions or strings. There is no judgement only choice of where to go from there.
Last, but by no means least, I embrace that I am always at choice to love; how I give it, receive it, withhold it, and to/from whom. This brought me some clarity perhaps it will do the same for you. Here's to the month of LOVE, may we celebrate LOVE always, not just for one month.
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